Pillow Talk ~ Reviews

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Lelo Gigi

Lelo clearly had some top notch female designers involved in the creation of this slim, gorgeous, seductive g-spot and clitoral creation. Its’ unique finish creates a soft and luxurious feeling that makes you want to never put it down. It is almost too cute for words. I know, I know….”cute”? I am a woman and cuteness plays into our consumption of pleasure toys!

Here is my list of adjectives to describe Gigi: dainty, classic, light, quiet, easy to clean (head is made from a matte-finished higher grade medical silicone while the handle is made from hard plastic), rechargeable (kudos to Lelo for being environmentally friendly!), looks cool and modern, exquisite packaging that epitomises class (for little forays they even provide a satin travel bag!), feels lovely (silicone feels like velvet), 1 control button (eliminates the need to fumble around in the dark when your mind is on…er…other things!), really does take female bodies and anatomy into account, resulting in a elegant, versatile (for both internal and external stimulation) and discreet vibe!

Gigi has 5 vibrating patterns as well as multiple speeds (made possible by increasing or decreasing the intensity of each type of vibration). Using the dial interface, the vibe patterns are awesome (and quite user-friendly, especially for your partner): three pulsing patterns, a surging pattern (my favourite!) and a steady buzz. It has a flight lock feature (hold center button for 5 seconds) to avoid turning on your Gigi accidentally, but don’t forget to hold it down for five seconds to reawaken the Gigi when it’s playtime! To aid in this regard Gigi even gives you a blinking red warning when your power is just about to run out. Told you it is cute…

I think it goes to show that when you design a sophisticated looking toy, you can significantly improve the amount of time (and times) that you and your partner spend using it together...

p.s. remember to use only water-based lubes with this vibe because of the silicone head

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Lelo Tor

Lelo’s Bo has got a new brother – yeah! But hold on, would it be fair to say this little brother has been blessed with not only better looks (ok, not radical, but the colour purple is SO the colour of an orgasm!), but with awesome settings and a sort of “sixth sense”, when Bo has been one of my absolute, absolute favourites in our bag of tricks?!

Tor, as the new generation Bo, remains the ultimate luxury toy for boys! It is a real gentleman’s pleasure object in the form of a portable, discreet, two-piece, rechargeable, pleasure-intensifying ring worn by him. And now, with six different settings that vary between vibrating intensity and some breathtaking pulsating settings, it seriously personifies “dynamite in a very small package”!

As with all Lelo objects, the shape and design of the Tor have been carefully thought through. As mentioned, Tor comes in two parts (a bullet and a stretchy silicone ring), which when being stored and charged, fit into one plastic case. When fully engaged, the ring and bullet form an almost seamless single unit. The beauty of a Tor is the increased “ease of use” feature where the settings are manipulated through a “+” and “–“ button, each positioned on either side of the bullet. So this time round, when you really need it to stop vibrating, all you have to do is remember is on which side of the bullet the “-“ is! So no more trying to disengage the bullet from the ring...very, very handy!

As the bullet is very powerful and with all the aforementioned settings, Tor doubles up as an amazing hands-free clitoral vibe, especially when in certain positions or when you’ve forgotten to charge your other toys!

So sorry Mr Bo, but your younger brother Tor has managed to steal my....mmmm...heart!!

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We-Vibe

Welcome to torture of the nicest kind! The we-vibe must rate as the one of the most innovative and orgasmic “new age toys” and as the best couples toy ever (bar the fact that it could really do with a remote control, as the settings are NOT easy to manipulate once “fitted”, hence my torture reference, but more about that later).

As a predominately “external orgasm chick” myself, I was hugely intrigued by the claim that the we-vibe is “the first and only internal vibrator designed to be worn during intercourse”. So after much anticipation (and falling way short of the recommended 24-hour initial charge before use – bugger those who say ”good things come to those who wait”!), my husband and I got our best quality water-based lube out our bag of tricks and that is where the fun started….Do try to have your hands lube-free before gently a) locating and b) pressing one of two tiny dimples to select your vibration speed. Maybe I should recommend that you do turn it on before putting it in place.

Do not be thwarted if it feels a little odd at first. Remember, you’ll get used to the pressure being applied in specific areas. To aid in this regard, maybe try solo play before introducing it as a couples toy. As it has a very snug fit, clitoral stimulation is maximized. With penetration, the we-vibe provides delightful g-spot stimulation and felt awesome for my partner (“you feel SO alive”!).

Different positions proved interesting as far as actual penetration and sensation is concerned, but keep in mind that which positions and tricks feel the best, will depend on your body and preferences. So the verdict is that enjoyment is 100% mutual!

In a nutshell, the we-vibe is a versatile, completely “hands-free” and “almost not there”, fits like a glove and stays in place (soft, flexible and comfortable), splash proof/water resistant, quiet and rechargeable (unlike other rechargeable vibes, this one can never be over-charged) winner! As you never have to pause or stop to adjust etc, it really is a non-intrusive, almost “not-there” plaything.

Take time getting to know your we-vibe and it’ll love you (and your partner) right back.

Learn More About We-Vibe - The Couples Vibrator

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The Delight

This toy is so much more than I expected it to be. First of all, never judge a book by it's cover, this is a prime example of that, I first saw a photo of it, I thought it was terrible, I imagined it being huge and couldn't quite figure it out. This is definitely one of those toys that you really need to see and feel to fully appreciate it. The minute I saw it and turned it on, I had to have it.

The insertable portion of the toy is small and flexible and the ergonomic design of it really does reach both your g-spot and your clitoral erogenous zones at the same time! The insertable end of the toy is also flexible, so it can be rocked into place and you can manipulate how much g-spot contact and intensity you want. The first time I used it it took a little getting used to, it was a little intimidating and I was afraid to really manipulate the toy to fit it exactly where I needed it, I would say this is definitely a toy you may need to try a couple of times before you get into the swing of things, but it's well worth the experimentation.

Then you have the settings, there are 7 escalating vibration settings and 3 pulsating settings, I highly recommend the first pulsating setting, it certainly will get you going, and once you're aroused you can amp it up to the next setting, if you have never had a toy that has settings, this will be a fantastic treat for you.

Then there's the aesthetics, the Delight comes with it's own case that it nestles in for discreet storage as well as to charge.

Oh, did I mention, it's rechargeable! Which means it is practically silent and the intensity of the vibration is far better than your average battery toy! And the charge lasts and lasts! You will not need to charge this toy after every use as it's charge lasts for hours!

The silicone parts of the toy are silky and exactly what you would expect from the high quality Fun Factory range. I use mine with Pjur Woman Aqua Gel lubricant, and it works a charm.

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Meany

I have been introduced to sex toys later in life. My approach has always been one of a conservative nature. Having said all this, the Fun Factory "Meany" Mini Vibrator can become your, and your partner's friend.

From a woman's perspective, it is small, flexible and of top quality silicone. Also, it has settings, and if I am anything like most women, we love settings. There are 7 speeds of ordinary vibration and 3 speeds in the famed "pulsate" setting which is well worth trying.

Meany is ergonomically designed for easy access to the control keys for either me or my partner to operate. I love the soft silicone material, for someone who is rather sensitive, this range and toy is a good choice.

An all round durable, easy to clean, fun toy. It takes 2 ordinary penlight batteries.

I store it and the batteries in a satin toy bag which protects it and keeps it dust free.

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Waterproof Bullet

As someone who has a few toys at home, I have to be honest and admit this is one of the ones that comes out most often!

This bullet, although reasonably priced, is not short on power or function! It has 7 settings to explore, ranging from 3 speeds of vibration to some pulsating and escalating settings. These are so effective clitorally, you'll find yourself needing to tear the romote out of your, or your partner's hands, to take a breather!

The sleek bullet can be used externally for clitoral stimulation or internally for g-spot stimulation. But the vibration is so strong that I find that when it's inserted, I still get plenty of clitoral stimulation!

I must not forget to tell you what I think is one of this fantastic buzzing bullet's best traits!!! It's waterproof!!! As in totally!!! Bullet, cables and control!!! So that bubble bath, with a great erotic read, is suddenly sublime! This is my personal favourite way to use this toy, alone and completely selfishly, in the bath! But of course, your partner will simply love joining in on the fun given half the chance.

This is simply a winner. Full stop.
PS - recommended it to a friend the other day and got a phone call the next day saying, simply, "THANK YOU!".

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Silicone Sleeve

I love things that are unassuming. This little accessory may be one that is often glanced over with all the other fancy gadgets available, but it should certainly be taken notice of!

Firstly, it is cheap as chips! It is hard wearing and stretches beautifully for the well endowed gents out there. It gives a whole new meaning to a "hand job" and making your grip a lot easier.

The biggest plus of course is what it does for your man! Blood Flow, Blood Flow, Blood Flow!!! It keeps the blood where it should be, enhancing and maintaining his erection, and thereby enhancing his orgasm.

This is a must for any couples' box of tricks!

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Shunga Secret Garden Female Enhancing Orgasm Cream

If ever you wanted real magic in a bottle, this must be it! With this stimulant you can seriously up the ante, multiply your pleasure, discover new sensations that may take you to the limits of clitoral orgasm and add spice to any intimate relationship!

Apply or massage a dab (or two!) directly onto the clitoral area and or the tissue under the clitoris. Depending on individual sensitivity, certain women feel the effect immediately, while others may take up to 3 applications. Although branded as a cream, the consistency is one of being gooier than cream, a little sticky and almost “human juice” like.

Unlike other stimulants that often contain excess Menthol which can create either a burning or cold sensation, Shunga’s orgasm cream has just the right amount of Menthol, L-Arginine, and L-Ornithine to make the flesh tingle and to increase blood flow and sensation to the area, resulting in a engorged clitoris that not only feels amazing, but also looks irresistible to any partner!

p.s. please note that it is not a lubricant and it is to be used externally only.

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Layaspot

You know that whole emotional thing us girls have about our “firsts”, like our first kiss, our first TRUE love and alas our first lover? Well, that is kinda how I feel about my Layaspot, as it was my inaugural “homework piece” to “The Bedroom’s Homework Club”.

Having said this, and emotional attachments aside, this funny looking, petite curved, two toned lay-on vibrator that is ergonomically shaped to fit against the pubic mound to stimulate through caressing and massaging, is undoubtedly one of my favourites for the following reasons:

• Easy to use and excellent for clitoral stimulation (its exclusive purpose) when in positions during lovemaking where such stimulation lacks or is not possible
• Non-offensive and unintimidating look, especially as a first-time couples toy
• A powerful, quiet and durable motor
• Easy “installation” - the little cap on the end twists off, pop in 2 x AAA batteries (hint: same as in TV remote ? !!!), twist it back on and it’s ready to go!
• Three vibration modes and three pulsing modes, which are easily controlled with two buttons (a “+” and “-“) that take the Layaspot from a ridiculously low purr to complete non-purring modes!! To switch off, hold down the “-“
• Splash-proof
• Made from 100% medical-grade Elastomed which can be used with water-based and silicone-based lubes
• Cleans up very easily with some antibacterial spray toy cleaner

Any negatives? Well, you have to ensure that the cap (on the end where batteries go in) is tightly secured and makes a “click” noise, otherwise it automatically engages the motor, which is clearly undesirable and the only way to switch it off is to then undo the cap.

I do feel a bit like a mother who loves all her offspring, but retains a very special place for “the first one”! Enough said…..?

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Pjur Woman Aqua Gel

This is something that should really be in every toy box or bottom drawer!

First of all, I should tell you that I am one of those women who has no problem with lubrication, so would never have considered buying a lubricant in the past. But I bought myself some Smart Balls to exercise my Kegal Muscles and needed a lubricant in order to insert the balls.

What a pleasant surprise I had when I first used this high quality lubricant. There is something so sensual about it's silky texture...
I only used a drop, a little goes a long way with this product, so the 100ml bottle will last you quite a while. It is easy to use because it's gel consistency is perfect, you won't have it running all over the show. It's colourless, flavourless, odourless and most importantly WATERBASED. This is important as you should never use a silicone based lubricant with your silicone toys. Because it's flavourless and odourless, you won't get tired of the scent or taste of it.

This is really a great everyday lubricant, an all rounder, great for sex play and toy play. It's my top choice for lubricants.

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Shunga Intimate Kisses

Have you ever had that feeling that you want to buy something from that gorgeous sensual boutique but have no idea what to get, or where to start?...

Well a good starting point, if you have never made such a purchase, would be for a little bottle of "pure magic". Intimate Kisses by Shunga is a flavoured edible oil for intimate and sensitive areas that gets you hot, literally! It is recommended that it is used on soft tissue areas on either him or her, in other words "intimate areas", hence "Intimate Kisses". I suggest you use sparingly as this delectable potion gets warm which is very sexy and sensual, however, it can get rather hot if too much is applied. Overheating, not so sexy!

Drop some on an intimate spot, rub, blow, lick and WOW! You might just have an orgasm there and then.

Oral sex is great, but is fantastic with a little help from Shunga's Intimate Kisses. The ingredients are natural and safe to use, afterall, it is intended for intimate areas. Flavours available: Blazing Cherry, Raspberry, Orgy of Grapes, Vanilla and Strawberries & Champagne.

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Lelo Liv

I’ll start my “Liv is just too lovely” review by apologising, as Liv has definitely proved to be “the Cinderella” within the Lelo range; meaning her attributes have been unrecognised and overlooked for too long and in my estimation, she has unexpectedly certainly achieve my recognition! Sorry about the period of obscurity and neglect….

Maybe my initial perception had to do with her innocuous look….elegant, mid-sized and minimalistic, as per the rest of Lelo’s amazing rechargeable range, but seemingly lacking an element of wow. Well, why did I never notice her beautifully tailored phallic contours?! Liv has the perfect shape to encourage clitoral stimulation and g-spot massage and is so easy to operate.

Liv boasts a 11cm insertable length shaft and is 4.5cm in circumference (perfect size, as less is definitely more!!) with the stem constructed from medical grade silicone and the handle from ABS plastic. As with most of the other Lelo’s, she is operated by a push button function/speed button which is easily controlled and she offers five function modes with 12 speed settings, identical to Gigi’s. Liv also has a flight-lock setting, comes with a satin pouch for safe storing/travels and a 1 year guarantee.

Two things to remember: only use water-based lubes with this vibe because of the silicone head and remember: looks can be deceiving - don’t be fooled…Liv is just too lovely!!!

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Better Than Chocolate

WOW! Can there be something better than chocolate? Absolutely YES. Nomi Tang's Better Than Chocolate has to be one of my favourite new toys.

Lets start with the aesthetics first, I have to say it is simply one of the best looking toys out there, it is packaged beautifully, made of top quality materials, comes with a rather glamorous looking white suede toy bag for storage and fits perfectly in your hand. Tick, tick and tick in the aesthetics department!

Having said that, Better Than Chocolate is not just a "pretty face", it definitely has the "brains" to back it up! Run on batteries, this simple to use designer vibe has all the combinations of settings (escalating and pulsating) that really work well for me clitorally. The shape was perfect, hugging my body as I would have expected. The controls are quite easy to figure out, an on button gets it going, and then there's a program button to cycle through the programs and a slide control which when you gently run your finger up and down it, increases or decreases the intensity or speed of the program you are in. Super simple! My only criticism is that in the throws of passion I kept accidentally changing the program - but they have catered for this with a lock button which locks Better Than Chocolate in the program and intensity it is in, so I guess I just have to learn to lock it - note to self.

For a battery toy, it's surprisingly quiet, which I enjoy and for me the winning factor is it's completely waterproof! Submersible up to 1 metre in fact. Being partial to bathtime fun, this was right up my alley! Something you do need to note is when Better Than Chocolate is submerged, it automatically enters lock mode and you can't change settings until it is dried off, so do ensure you have it on the setting you want before submerging.

Ditch the fattening real chocolate and spoil yourself with this designer vibrator that is definitely Better Than Chocolate!

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G3 Tango

There are times in our lives when the material things really get us excited. Whether it is the look of something that attracts us, or the feel....

Tango by Fun factory did just that for me when it first appeared in our shop. A couple of hours after its arrival I got told I get to try it as my homework for The Boutique. Woop Woop.

So I gave it to my always willing and adventurous husband and said "You drive Babe!" And he duly did.

The Tango is a "rabbit" as it offers dual stimulation - Clitoral and Vagina. It has some rather awesome settings. I preferred the lower vibration as I am very sensitive. It has five different vibrate and pulsate modes. For the ladies out there requiring slightly stronger vibration this toy will definitely do the trick.

I love the look of this toy, is it the colour (India Red)? Could be, but what sold it for me was the feel. It is super soft and flexible - loving that! It takes 3 AAA batteries and the control interface is not rocket science.

I recommend this to anyone out there still new to the sex toy arena but wanting to be slightly more adventurous. Tango On!

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Intimate Organics Hydra

I suppose you could call me the “Genital Sensitivity Barometer” of the shop as, since I can remember, I could only wear cotton panties (had to have a special doctor’s letter as our school uniform dictated lovely blue nylon ones – obviously back in day!), never indulge in any form of bath treats like foams, oils or salts, only ever use white toilet paper and soap etc etc. So if a product is safe and okay for me to use, it should really be safe and okay for you.

I find it fascinating that so many people are so concerned about potentially harmful ingredients in their food, but very few people consider what's in their sexual wellness products (like lube). Well, for those of you who fall in the latter group, here is some very good news.

Intimate Organics’s Hydra lubricant is 100% naturally derived, and is uniquely formulated with a certified blend of organic extracts such as organic Goji Berry extract and organic Lemongrass extract as well as naturally healthy ingredients like antioxidants, cellular regenerating Aloe and natural oils. It is pure vegan and never tested on animals.

Here is Intimate Organics Hydra’s profile:

Type: Water-based
Condom safe: Yes
Safe to use with all types of toys: Yes
Glycerin-free: Yes (for sweetening; if in lube, can make it sticky)
Paraben-free: Yes (chemical with antibacterial and antifungal properties to also extend shelf life; if in lube, can cause skin irritations, alter estrogen processes)
DEA-free: Yes (chemical to aid wetting property; by itself it is benign)
Organic: Yes

The lube is silky and smooth, wonderful to the touch and does exactly what lube should do: enhances lubrication without “adding too much or taking anything away” - it simply feels like natural human juices! Being water-based and DEA-free, it needs to be used quite liberally and without glycerine or any other flavourant, its taste is not fabulous, but hey, to me the “organicness” of Hydra out ranks taste! The flip top is also very user friendly, considering that intimacy is not quite the time to have an arm wrestle with your bottle of lube!

Sex is 100% natural and so is Hydra…

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The Bedroom Aromatherapy Massage Oils

As a massage therapist - a passionate one at that - I have been very lucky not only to be involved in the development of, but also to be one of the first to try the new Aromatherapy Massage Oils that The Bedroom has created.

The Bedroom, always known for attention to detail, consulted with an aromatherapist and after a number of "smell this", "feel that" meetings, we finally settled on 3 flavours or scents for our Massage Oils. These being: Devour - Pure Vanilla, Arouse - Ylang Ylang & Sandalwood and Seduce - Rose & Sandalwood.

The oils have amazing slip (in other words, they are silky and long lasting) and a little goes a long way as only about a teaspoon is required for it to go on and on.

The essential aromatherapy aroma's of the Ylang Ylang, Vanilla and Rose are feel good scents, but not overpowering, remember that vanilla is one of the scents that turn men on and Ylang Ylang and rose are known aphrodisiacs, so do consider this when choosing your scent. If all else fails, do as I did and buy all three and simply alternate.

As stunning as the scents are, these oils are not just a pretty face! They deliver when it comes to quality and feel of the oil as well. To keep them natural, we have added no additives or preservatives, and therefore they are only available in a 50ml size to ensure you can use it all within the allotted shelf life. You can expect to get somewhere between 10 and 20 massages out of 1 bottle, depending on how generous you are, the areas being massaged, etc.

One of the added pleasures of these oils is that they have been bottled cleverly in pipetted bottles. Not only is the art of drizzling massage oil a sensual experience in itself, but for the more practically minded, it makes for a no mess, no fuss application.

There are few pleasures as unselfish, and loving, as massage - if you haven't already introduced it into your relationship, start now, it's something you won't regret!

If you have no idea where to begin, book a Sensual Massage Course with me and I will start you on this exciting path of discovery.

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