Pillow Talk ~ Overview

Celebrate your sensuality! We’d love you to share your stories and questions with us. All enquiries are treated with sensitivity and are in the strictest confidence. Pseudonyms have been used to protect the identity of these powerful, sensual women.

Questions

Q: After 10 years of marriage, our relationship has become stale, especially in the bedroom. What can I do to spice things up?

A: Maintaining an exciting sexual relationship takes work and it’s easy to fall into a routine with a long term partner. Shake things up by booking a romantic weekend for just the two of you, away from your normal environment. Take along one of our personalised weekend hampers filled with exotic oils, sexy lingerie and a few fun items and create a seductive atmosphere. Let nature do the rest! When you return, continue with the erotic play and experiment with new things. Tell your partner about your desires – a woman who knows how she wants to be pleased and is not afraid to say so is very sexy.

Q: I have a fantasy about dressing up as a schoolgirl and getting my husband to be the teacher. Does that make me perverted?

A: Relax, it makes you normal. 80% of adults either fantasise about or act out roles during sex. At The Bedroom, we have a wide range of fetish and role play items designed to help you enhance your sex life.

Q: What is the difference between a sensual massage and a normal massage?

A: A sensual massage focuses on certain erogenous zones of the body to tease and arouse. Areas such as the earlobe, back of the knee and inner elbow are all erogenous zones which are not normally associated with a traditional massage. The Bedroom offers courses on such massages as well as seductive dancing such as belly and pole dancing.