When you google “Two women making love”, every possible porn site pops up and it gives you results of “Two hot girls making love”.  It seems that you really have to search deeper to receive the more sensual results of women making love with each other.

“Two women Romance” – does not give any better results either… perhaps we don’t speak openly enough of what it is like for two women making love?!

I recently entered a loving, intimate romance with a woman who prefers a female partner.  This is, by no means, my first intimate experience with a woman.  However, it is my very first without a man involved in the love making.  My very first where I can really explore the wonders of the feminine body over and over again.

It is not that I have suddenly changed my mind about men, or that I am now a “lesbian” and need to climb out of a closet and announce that my lover is a woman.

Being in a female body does not automatically give me the knowledge of how to touch another woman.  Yes, I do know exactly where to find the clitoris and the G-Spot – however we all like to be touched in different ways.

Being intimate with a woman brings a whole new side to intimacy which I have not experienced before.  And to put it simply… it is blowing my mind!!

After many experiences with men, I am quite amazed at how different it is with a woman.

I feel too, that if we, as women,  would really like to receive great sexual advice… we can get it from a lesbian. If men would like some advice on how to touch and engage with a woman… they too should get it from a lesbian.

Two women together share openly with each other about what they like, they listen to each other, and they go with the flow of their  lover’s body more easily.  As we know, each vagina has its own language – and it is a first for me that a lover is so open to learn the language of my vagina so early on.

I have found that there is no fear of judgment as to whether my boobs, that were once firm and perky, and are now two empty and drained milk canisters, will be acceptable or appealing enough to be enjoyed.  Or whether my proud mommy stretch-marks will be loved and caressed too.

We all know the first intimacy jitters… none of that is there at all.

I never knew that two women in bed together could have so much fun… so much bliss… And for the first time,  I do not feel any fear that I might be too much sexually for my lover.

This brings up communication in intimate relationships again for me.  And this experience is certainly an inspiration, and I hope for all of you too.  The fact that men and women can start out early on chatting openly about intimacy and that you may be friends in bed too, and not just serving each other your next orgasm.

Let’s chill out about our physical appearances and inhibitions, let our hair down and share and welcome the wild passion of our lovers, whatever their gender!

Yogini Brenda

Yogini Brenda is a Tantra Teacher that is based at the Parkhurst Branch. Her passion is to assist women, men and teens with all sexual, marriage and relationship matters. In reality she dances in meditation, and from the eye she swings from chandeliers.

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